Breaking!

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Why do they always blame the girl for the broken relationship?
Films always portray the boy drunken after the breakup solely dealing with it. Why? Is the girl that heartless or everyone else entirely blind? Why don't they ever ask, if the girl was happy with the relationship then why did she leave at the first place? Why can't they bloody see or just gulp down the fact that it always takes two hands to clap?
Of course then that means she wasn't happy at all. She was tired of pretending. She wanted her own life, she wanted to breathe out. May be she felt jammed inside. It's her life and she decides. If you are dumb enough to not get that, then you are at fault. Stop blaming the girl. Why can't you just keep your male ego aside, sit and think about what wrong you did that compelled her to leave.
It's always easy transferring faults or pointing fingers at others but it's way more difficult to stand in front of the mirror, trying to answer all the 'why's'. It kills.
It hurts even more when you have none to share that pain, the cause, which the girl holds within her, sobbing in silence. No one understands this. Instead they call names- drama Queen, overacting and what not. Do you have the slightest idea of what caused her to get out of that relationship which apparently was blissful to you?
If it breaks then it equally affects both of them. Know the cause and then speak. For good!

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